Conventions Used in This Book in Visual Studio .NET

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This book is a jargon-free zone When I introduce a new term, I italicise it and then define it The only other conventions in this book are that Web and e-mail addresses are in monofont, and the action part of numbered steps and the key concepts in a list are in bold I alternate between using female and male pronouns in odd- and even-numbered chapters to be fair to both!

I assume, perhaps wrongly, that you: Are interested in body language and know a little bit about it Want to improve your interpersonal communications Are willing to reflect and respond Expect the best

The cool thing about the For Dummies books is that you can dip in and out as you please You don t need to read the first chapter to understand the last and if you read the last chapter first you won t ruin the story The table of contents and index can help you find what you need If you prefer to just dive in, please do there s water in the pool Read on for what lies ahead

In this part I explore the foundations of body language, the silent communicator You discover the origins of body language, how it evolved, and the impact it has on all your communications and relationships

Focusing on the head and its parts and positions, I continue exploring body language and the messages it conveys You discover how the tilt of your head, the lift of your brow, and the tremble of your lip reveal more than the words that tumble from your mouth

In this part I explore the impact of your posture on your thinking, attitudes, and perceptions You see how feelings, behaviour, and perceptions are intertwined I look at the body s limbs, its arms, legs, feet, hands, and fingers, and how their movements reflect inner states and create impressions Finally, you see how your accessories add to the picture of who you are

In this part you discover how to gesture effectively and appropriately according to the situation you re in You find out where to place and position yourself for greatest effect You discover how to read and reveal signs of interest and dismissal and how to engage with a possible romantic partner Back at the office you discover the power positions and how to demonstrate confidence and positive impact

Addressing cultural diversity you get a glimpse into behaviours different from your own and pick up adaptive strategies for avoiding potential pitfalls

If you re keen to get a handle on body language quickly and concisely, start with Part V Stop here if you want top ten tips for spotting when someone s being economical with the truth I also show you how to enlarge your fan base and engage with your admirers For developing your skills as a silent communicator, gaining self-awareness, and honing your observation skills, this is the place to be

For sharpening your thinking and focusing your attention, let these icons be your guide This icon highlights stories to entertain and inform you about friends of mine, or people I ve seen, and the clues they ve revealed through body language Here s a chance for you to stand back and observe without being seen By distancing yourself and taking a bird s eye view you can watch how others behave and reflect on the outcome

Here you can have a go at putting theory into practice Some of the practical exercises are designed to enhance your image and create an impact

Although all the material in this book is designed to support you in being yourself at your best, not all the information may be pertinent to your specific needs or interests Read what you want, when you want You don t have to read the book in order, nor is there a sell by date for covering the material If you re interested in how body language conveys messages, begin with Part I If you re seeking to improve your body language for a job interview or for playing the political and corporate game at work, have a look at 14 If you re curious about facial expressions have a look at 4 Now, flip to a page, chapter, or section that interests you and read away Feel free to dip and dive from section to section and page to page Most importantly, enjoy the read